Earlier this week Mr. Decor announced “I’m off on Friday. Would you like to do something together?” I immediately felt heartsick. I needed to refocus.
Refocus
I am a planner by nature and each week my calendar features a precarious schedule so fully packed that a shifting of events is almost impossible.
But I know what is important.
With work, school, a child on summer vacation 24/7 and a home that has me employed as it’s a full-time gardener, maid, and chef I could see only one area that could be altered. You are looking at it right now. It’s blogging.
When things like this occur I always like to use the 20-year rule. Have you heard of it?
When faced with a decision you simply ask yourself “What decision will matter or have the most impact on my life in 20 years?”
The process can look like this:
“In 20 years time will I be happier that I spent a day with my husband or that I researched, wrote, and photographed 3 blog posts?”
When put in those terms it’s easy to see the answer. Or at least to me it is.
Eyes on the prize.
I love blogging but there is someone I love more.
So yesterday I spent the day with my husband. We had breakfast in bed. Such fun!
I’m so happy I realized what is truly important because he truly is one of the best dads that I know.
I’m posting a day early so that tomorrow I can give him my full attention as well.
Happy Father’s Day to all the wonderful dads!
Laura
“The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.” ~ Proverbs 31:11-12
Sweet, insightful post… and so right! Hope ya'll have a wonderful day tomorrow celebrating your husband! 🙂 ~Rhonda
Lovely post. We all need to put our families first. I hope you all have a wonderful Father's Day.
You are so right, spending time with loved ones is the most important thing, have a great day tomorrow.
You made the right choice, of course! Cherish the time spent with your hubby!
Great choice! Thanks for the verse, too!
This is such a sweet post; and of course, you made the right decision! Enjoy your time together!
Good call. Life before blogging. I hope you had a great day.
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Amen, sister! 🙂 Have a wonderful day!
Of course that was the right choice!
Experience has taught me that when I have my priorities right and make the right decisions, everything else falls into place.
Yes, You have your priorities right. Great tribute to your husband. You will never go wrong to chose your family over other things.
I'm happy to spend Father's Day with my husband and son two great fathers.
Sometimes blogging does get in the way of life…our blogs are important…but life is more important. So happy you spent the day with your love and hope it was a good one. Wish him happy Father's day for me!
Wise words and choices Laura.
You know truly we will all be here when you amp your posts up once again!
Jemma
I've not heard of this rule before. Very sensible.
Amalia
xo
Nice hammocks Laura!! THanks for hosting!
You know what's important in life, Laura. Thanks for sharing the beautiful verse from Proverbs.
The 20 year rule is VERY important and you made the right decision.